"The Let Them Theory"
- Lacey Arthur
- Aug 25
- 2 min read
My journey with reading has been akin to a rollercoaster, filled with peaks of excitement and valleys of disinterest. Initially, I was lured by what everyone else was reading - the must-reads of the time, like "Twilight" in high school. Fast forward to college, and mandatory texts felt more like intellectual shackles than the wings I needed.
Then came a book, unexpectedly, as though the universe had placed it in my path, not unlike how a serendipitous meeting might happen in a romantic movie. "The Let Them Theory" was this book, arriving at a crossroads in my life, guiding me with its beacon through turbulent emotional seas.
Growing up, emotions were not to be spoken of; they were to be bottled, like forbidden artifacts from a forgotten era. I realize now how much of Elsa’s plight from Disney's "Frozen" mirrored my own internal struggles. "Conceal it, don't feel it" - a mantra I unknowingly adopted, mistakenly believing it would equate to peace.
The revelation "The Let Them Theory" provided was profound. It wasn't mine to fix everyone's emotional labyrinth. Once arduous, this acceptance became liberating. My previous attempts at self-sacrifice for others' comfort morphed into learning to prioritize my well-being, understanding that supporting others doesn’t equal assuming their emotional burdens.
Books like "The Let Them Theory" can be life-altering, not because they provide all the answers, but because they hold up a mirror - reflecting truths we already know but sometimes refuse to see. I invite you, dear reader, to find your "Let Them Theory," to seek out narratives that speak to your soul, and embrace the insights they offer.
In transformation, it’s not the books everyone else is reading that matter, but the ones that whisper directly to your spirit, offering solace, revelation, and release.




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